I´ve heard
about some curious anecdotes that I would like to share and discuss. I remember
my grandmother telling us the story of one friend of her, a lady who lived in
the same town. People used to say she was a witch and no one liked her or even
cared about her, however, my grandma preferred to know people personally and
then make her own opinion about them. She allowed the lady to live in the
ground floor of her house, rented of course, she discovered a nice gentle lady
and they became friends; the ´´witch´´ always said to her that she would help
and protect her when needed. Once, my grandfather was very ill and my
grandmother had to go from the farm they were to the town in order to get some
medicines, however, it was a rainy night and in the way she had to cross a very
dangerous rocky mountain by horse. She started her journey, alone and scared
because of the danger but when she started crossing the mountain, her friend,
the witch, appeared and told her to be calmed because she would accompany and
protect her during her travel.
In my
opinion, it´s very difficult to believe that witches had ever existed but
according to the time of the story and the cultural beliefs it would be very
hard to find the truth. As the saying says, witches don’t exist, but there are
some. I´d rather prefer to think that there are people who have special gifts
and, according to the way they use them and to the fear the society feels about
their abilities, they will always be judged as different and receive social
marks or nick-names like, in this case, witches.
Also, one of
my closer cousins experimented a situation that created a lot of doubts. Her
family used to go visiting an uncle´s girlfriend´s family, a lot of people
joined together on Saturdays to talk and have a mid-afternoon meal. At a
moment, a man started to talk to her, they became friends and some time later
he asked her to be his girlfriend. She didn’t like him as a partner so she made
him apart, however he kept insisting for a lot of time, finally, things got
cold and they stopped talking and seeing each other for a while. Two months
later things started to went wrong for her, anything happened the way she
wanted or needed and problems started to be an usual part of her life:
relationships, job, business, etc. She and her family began to be worried and
started looking for someone who was able to give them an explanation. They
found someone who explained that she had been bewitched and that there must be
an object which was affecting her energy and her life so they had to find it to
destroy it and turn the situation over, they started to search but didn’t find
anything. Some time after that, she remembered that the man had given her a pair
of earrings and a necklace so she looked for them and destroyed them, it turned
out that the man, in revenge for her denial, had bewitched her.
I don’t think
that it really happened, but my cousin insisted that it was truth. From my
point of view, you have to believe to get affected, I mean, if you accept the
fact of being part of the situation you will get involved and eventually suffer
the consequences. I don’t think a particular object can affect your life such
as in a strong way but if you let the other´s comments, attitudes and feelings
to be part of your life then you will begin to be affected, in the other hand,
if you don’t pay attention and keep going, you will achieve your objectives no
matter what.